ABOUT Me
My Profile
* I am a Single White Male who Believes in Monogamy
* 6' 4" and 260 lbs. * HWP * Dad Bod (Bit of a Belly)
* Born in 1968 * Adopted by Very Loving Parents
* I Own a Sole Proprietorship Company and Work as a Construction Site Safety Professional and Occupational First Aid III
I live alone in a clean older place with great landlords. They dont mind if I have fun once in a while. However I don't abuse the fact that they do allow me tom blow off some steam once in a while.
So how has your day been? Long and hard at work I bet? Wouldn't you like to be able to call your man up and find out he's been thinking of YOU all day, hoping you'll call after work and just come straight to his home. As you walk through the door you see a clean house, the seat in the bathroom is down, and even though he is dead dog tired from his 10-hour day, he still manned up and prepared dinner for two. No....not take out. A home cooked meal, because he knows you're worth it....... ten-fold. That's the man I am. Now I bet the question just entered your mind. "If this is true, why is he still single. Why hasn't some woman scooped him up?" The answer is quite simple. I will not stay when one has no sense of morality and monogamy. Have I been burned. "Maybe he's too injured"? you ask yourself. But then haven't we all be burned and cheated on at some point. Are you injured? We learn and realize the type of people we don't want. For all they do is take. And those are the ones who forced our hand to walk away. And now we find ourselves here. We find ourselves looking for each other.
I like to meet a lady who has the same mindset as I. However physical attraction is a must. Now I don’t care what color you are, I don’t care too much about your size, and I really don’t care about your past, for all there could be is the future. I want to feel goosebumps when you touch me, a spine tingle when you kiss me, and a universal phenomenon when you make love to me. So, if you're tired of chasing a fantasy that just isn't there, then stop and talk to me. I promise you this, if we are attracted to one another, I'll make you laugh, cry tears of pure joy, and show you passion that you only dreamed about.
I am an open book, I have talked to some on here and even meet a few. However when I feel they are not serious, interested or have real problems with communication I have to move on. Because if it doesn't feel right now, why would it feel right later. Now some might be angry at that, but I have to ask myself, "What's best for everybody"? After all we come here to find somebody that brings a smile to our face, laughter and warmth to our souls, and a feeling of desire and passion to our lives.
My Profile
* I am a Single White Male who Believes in Monogamy
* 6' 4" and 260 lbs. * HWP * Dad Bod (Bit of a Belly)
* Born in 1968 * Adopted by Very Loving Parents
* I Own a Sole Proprietorship Company and Work as a Construction Site Safety Professional and Occupational First Aid III
I live alone in a clean older place with great landlords. They dont mind if I have fun once in a while. However I don't abuse the fact that they do allow me tom blow off some steam once in a while.
So how has your day been? Long and hard at work I bet? Wouldn't you like to be able to call your man up and find out he's been thinking of YOU all day, hoping you'll call after work and just come straight to his home. As you walk through the door you see a clean house, the seat in the bathroom is down, and even though he is dead dog tired from his 10-hour day, he still manned up and prepared dinner for two. No....not take out. A home cooked meal, because he knows you're worth it....... ten-fold. That's the man I am. Now I bet the question just entered your mind. "If this is true, why is he still single. Why hasn't some woman scooped him up?" The answer is quite simple. I will not stay when one has no sense of morality and monogamy. Have I been burned. "Maybe he's too injured"? you ask yourself. But then haven't we all be burned and cheated on at some point. Are you injured? We learn and realize the type of people we don't want. For all they do is take. And those are the ones who forced our hand to walk away. And now we find ourselves here. We find ourselves looking for each other.
I like to meet a lady who has the same mindset as I. However physical attraction is a must. Now I don’t care what color you are, I don’t care too much about your size, and I really don’t care about your past, for all there could be is the future. I want to feel goosebumps when you touch me, a spine tingle when you kiss me, and a universal phenomenon when you make love to me. So, if you're tired of chasing a fantasy that just isn't there, then stop and talk to me. I promise you this, if we are attracted to one another, I'll make you laugh, cry tears of pure joy, and show you passion that you only dreamed about.
I am an open book, I have talked to some on here and even meet a few. However when I feel they are not serious, interested or have real problems with communication I have to move on. Because if it doesn't feel right now, why would it feel right later. Now some might be angry at that, but I have to ask myself, "What's best for everybody"? After all we come here to find somebody that brings a smile to our face, laughter and warmth to our souls, and a feeling of desire and passion to our lives.
Some of my writings
The Dark Lonely Heart
It's been suggested he's too picky. It's been suggested she's the one. He's been told she's too wrong for him. He's been told she's the only one. For she's tells him I'm the one, yet he still doesn't feel love from anyone. He wonders if there is ever going to be someone in which to love and depend on. To dream of, till he's done.
He awakes most days alone and sore, the pain from the yesterday and the night before. Once abusing the life he knew so well, only to find the solitude of a cold home, dark skies and a place like hell. A long life he lives, some days he wishes would end, trying so hard for the brave face and a smile but it's all just pretend.
Every day off to work at five watching over the others, making sure they stay alive so they can go home to their wives, sisters and brothers. The danger of it all the medic he is, he's got the skills of his craft, incase it all goes sideways and kills. Praying it will stay just as it is, doing the job with passion and never remiss. Only a few will understand the strife in his life, However one day maybe a wife.
Home time he goes in the deep dark rain, hobbling along the sidewalk always walking in pain. Thinking in thought the mind wonders and pleas, dreaming of a future and a life that was free. He thinks to himself “I wish I only had one, A Wife, A Queen, MaCushla”, a lone he wait for her to come.
He's made his mistakes not all were his fault, if only others could see the train of his thoughts. But they can't see into the eyes of a man, striving to complete God's big plan. Before he was touched, she ripped his heart out, then lit the match fanning the flames, not even trying to put it out. Trust is now the issue that plagues his life, like a festering tumor it needs to be cut out with a knife.
The dark lonely heart he lives all alone, the punishment he reigns on himself every night when he goes home. One day there will be someone he can love, and until then, he keeps asking for it from God and surviving with a grin.
The LIFE of CHIVALRY
It’s a hard thing to let a stranger into your life. They befriend you, there is an attraction, you start to date, it might starts to get serious, and that’s when it happened. It hits you in the face like a winter smack from an ice ball. The comfort zone has set in and being courteous and having any consideration are a non-factor now. Failure at its highest degree. Do you know why you see a couple in their 90s still holding hands? I’ll tell you. Because she still washes his clothes and makes his dinner after a day of him in the yard making her dream of a paradise always a work in motion and the reality in her eyes. He still holds the door for her as she walks in first, he holds her hand while they walk and always puts his body between the road and her, and never lets her carry any heavy lifting. He mans up and she takes care of him.
It’s called “Chivalry” and it’s a CODE of conduct. For those who think it’s only for men, I would say that you are sadly mistaken and confused.
Do you really think she wants to wash his dirty stinking clothes? NO! She does it because she loves him and it’s a TEAM effort. Do you really think he wants to spend his days manually working out back on his days off or retirement? NO! He does it because he loves her. They talk to each other, never keep secrets, and never ever lie, cheat or steal from one another.
It would be so perfect if the so called modern day human could or even would make an effort to understand this basic concept of life and relationships. All the same the modern day creature comforts seem the get in the way. It seems the next new bright and shiny thing is always getting in the way. New phones, new TVs, new apps, and yes new websites to find that other to do to you what the one your with has no clue what you want or need due to lack of any meaningful communication.
Years ago they didn’t toss anything away that was a little broken, they fixed it. A crack, a bruise, even missing parts. They fixed it. Not today or in the future. So many are always out looking for the next BBD {Bigger and Better Deal}. Yet it’s your eyes, stomach and hunger that are getting in the way of your life. If you don’t change it you will never feel full. You can call that “Emotional Obesity”. Your life is full but your heart feels empty, you hunger for the next. That’s’ the lie and that’s the trap that’s the life you are wasting.